Myth #2 You should be wet if you’re turned on
False: It’s normal for your body not to respond when you’re mentally and emotionally in the mood.💧
Sometimes we can be very turned on and our body doesn’t respond the way we want it to. When this happens, someone might feel that there is something ‘wrong’ with them or that they don’t ‘get wet enough’ on their own. This is called arousal non-concordance - and it’s all very normal.
One go-to is to reach for a bottle of lube and handy for all kinds of sexual activity. It makes things much more slippery, more sensitive, most of all, much more pleasurable! This is something you’ll want to have in your nightstand.
It can be used anywhere on the body and is essential for a great massage anywhere on the body – really, we mean anywhere. On top of that, it promotes safe sex! 😍
Alice Child
Somatic Sexologist and Sex Coach
@AliceChildOfficial